The words you use when you speak with your
students and the way you express yourself are just some of the tools you have
to use when creating a strong bond with them.
There are very few rules about how you should
speak to your students. The age and maturity level of your students will guide
how you speak. For example, it is usually a serious offense for a teacher in an
elementary classroom to tell students to shut up. In a high school classroom,
this phrase is not as serious; it is merely rude. You should avoid using it,
however, because there are more effective ways to ask students to stop talking.
Kind words spoken in a gentle voice make it
much easier for your students to connect with you. If you say something unkind
to a student, it will hurt even more than an insult from a peer because it is
from someone the student should be able to count on.
The one language mistake you should never make
is to swear when you are with your students. When you do this, you cross the
line of what is acceptable and what is not. If you are ever tempted to swear
around your students, remember that teachers have been fired for swearing at
students. If a word slips out, you should immediately apologize to your
students, let them know that you are embarrassed, apologize again, and then
continue with instruction. After your class is over, you should speak with a
supervisor and explain your side of the situation as soon as you can and
certainly, before your supervisor hears about it from an angry parent or
guardian.
While swear words are clearly not something
you should say around students, there are other language issues you should also
pay attention to. Make sure your own words are ones that help your students and
do not hurt them. Never make negative or insulting remarks about any student’s
· Race
· Gender
· Religion
· Family
· Friends
· Nationality
· Clothing
· Neighborhood
· Body size
· Sexual orientation
· Disabilities
You should also make a point of using
“I” messages whenever you can. “I” messages are statements that use words such
as I, we, us, or our instead of you. For example, instead of the harsh, “You’d
better pay attention,” a teacher can say, “I’d like for you to pay attention
now.” “You’re too noisy" becomes “We all need to be quiet so that everyone
can hear,” and “You’re doing that all wrong!” can become “I think I can help
you with that.” With these simple changes, the statements are no longer
accusatory, harsh in tone, or insulting. The language points out a problem but
does not put anyone on the defensive. “I” messages work because they state a
problem without blaming the student. This, in turn, creates a focus on a
solution and not on an error the child has made.
Another way to make sure to use your teacher
voice effectively is to match your tone to your purpose. Teachers who do not
use a serious tone when the situation warrants it can confuse students who
quickly pick up on the discrepancy between the tone of voice their teacher is
using and the seriousness of the moment.
You may also recall teachers in your past who
had unfortunate verbal mannerisms—repeating “you know”; or clearing their
throat; or using annoying filler words, such as “like.” If you suspect that you
may have a potentially distracting verbal mannerism, one of the best ways to be
certain is to record yourself and listen critically. You can also ask for
honest feedback from colleagues or from your students.
A final way to use your teacher voice to make
it a more effective teaching tool is to vary the speed at which you speak.
Teachers who talk very quickly or in a slow monotone in front of the class are
not tuned in to their audience. Remember that when you are in class, you should
not be in the same conversational mode that you would use with your friends.
Instead, use your voice to make it easy for your students to understand you.
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