It
is necessary for teachers to make it possible for students to work well
together—an undertaking requiring diplomacy as well as consistent effort on
your part. Social inclusion is such a vital aspect of any student’s life that
the effort can often result in beneficial dividends for everyone in the
classroom.
One
of the most important ways to make sure all students feel that they are valued
members of a class is to work to remove the barriers to social acceptance that
may exist among them. For example, students could feel excluded because they do
not know their classmates. It is a mistake to assume that students know each
other well. Even students who have attended school together for several years
may not know much about their classmates.
Another
barrier may occur because students may live in different neighborhoods. If you
teach in a school where students may live at a distance or come from very
diverse neighborhoods, it is likely that they have not had many opportunities
to interact with each other outside of school.
In
addition, students who have not been taught how to behave courteously or who
have not learned socially acceptable ways to resolve conflict often struggle to
form appropriate relationships with their peers. Helping everyone learn how to
interact in an acceptable, courteous manner will take time and consistent
effort on your part.
Perhaps
the greatest barrier that you will have to help your students overcome is the
perception that they may not have much in common with a classmate whom they do
not know well. With effort and persistence, you can assist students in learning
to recognize their commonalities so that they can learn to accept and support
each other. Use the tips in the list that follows to guide you as you work to
help students remove the barriers to peer acceptance.
· Make sure that each student’s strengths are
well known to the rest of the class.
· If a student has an unpleasant history of
failure or misbehavior, make it clear that it is time for a fresh start and
that you are providing that opportunity.
· Show your students the correct ways to
interact with each other. Teach courtesy. It will not take long before students
become aware of the expectations that you have for acceptable behavior. They
need plenty of models and monitoring until they have learned to cooperate
productively.
· Let each student shine. Every student should
believe that he or she is really your favorite.
· Be sensitive to the differences that divide
your students and to the potential for conflict that those differences can
cause. It may take a while until you get to know your students well enough to
be aware of the social differences that exist among them, but vigilance on your
part will make it easier to help students learn to work together well.
· Make it a point to recognize students who work
well with others. Whenever possible, praise the entire class for its
cooperative attitude.
· Provide opportunities for students to get to
know each other. These do not have to take up a great deal of time, but can be
done in brief activities scattered throughout the year.
· Plan enough work for your students to do so
that they are focused on instruction and don’t have time to discover their
classmates’ negative character traits.
· Promote tolerance and acceptance with a
display of posters, bulletin board displays, and encouraging mottoes.
· Encourage students to share experiences and
personal information about their family, culture, and goals while working with
each other.
· Make it very easy for students to understand
class routines and procedures and to follow directions well. Students who know
what to do are less likely to make embarrassing mistakes for which they can be
teased or excluded later.
· Be careful that you model appropriate behavior
frequently, thereby encouraging your students to do the same.
· Don’t give in to the temptation of rolling
your eyes or losing your patience when a student blunders in front of
classmates. Your actions could set that student up for social exclusion later.